When my mother had an argument with a longtime friend, she’d often end the conversation by asking, “Are we still pals?” It was funny, charming, and surprisingly effective at ensuring that the relationship was intact despite the disagreement.
Conflict with someone close to us can naturally lead to concern about potential damage to the relationship. If that’s something you’re worried about, don’t be afraid to borrow my mother’s approach. At the end of the conversation, simply ask, “Are we still pals?” It’s a thoughtful way to confirm that everything is okay.