One of my favorite songs is by the legendary Willie Nelson called “Nothing I Can Do About It Now.” It’s a song about letting go of past regrets because there’s nothing that can be done about those things. The lyrics capture an important truth—not everything from our past is within our power to change. This […]
I was listening to a recording of a relaxation exercise the other day and near the beginning, the facilitator said, “See if you can make yourself 10% more comfortable.” I thought that was an amazing suggestion. Most of us, upon hearing that, try to figure out a way to make ourselves 10% more comfortable. Not […]
When I was in high school, the cafeteria staff would take the leftover peanut butter and jelly sandwiches from one day’s lunch, toast them, and serve them as toasted peanut butter and jelly sandwiches the next morning at breakfast. It was an amazing treat, and thinking about this recently made me realize that sometimes a […]
There was an article recently about a business owner who found that people in meetings were spending more time looking at their smartphones than they were around the room at one another and paying attention. And he had two solutions. One was they put a shelf outside the conference room and people were expected to […]
One of the legendary stories in our family is my older brother Robbie coming home from his first day of elementary school and my mother asked him “Where’s your seat in the classroom?” And he said, “I sit right behind the kid in front of me.” It’s a funny story, but it’s also interesting how […]
In David Brooks’s excellent book ‘How to Know a Person’ he tells a story about perspective. A man is standing on one side of a river and on the opposite side there’s a woman who sees him and yells, “How do I get to the other side?” The man looks at her and yells back, […]
The comedian George Carlin, who was one of my favorites, had a routine where he asked why people sometimes check the same pocket twice for keys that they can’t find. His question is “What do we think? The keys flew back in there between the first time and the second time?” The reason I may […]
I put on a coat this morning I haven’t worn in about a year and I found a quarter in the right front pocket. I was reminded of advice the personal finance Guru Susie Orman gave at one time, to go through all the clothing in your home and kind of recapture the money that […]
Although I like drinking coffee, I’m by no means an aficionado, and a friend recently sent me an article that sort of cataloged all the ways to make the perfect cup of coffee. I’m sure you’ve seen things like this before, and people go to great lengths to achieve that. One of the things I […]
When I was growing up, I had a great Uncle named Sam. He was both my great Uncle and also great as an uncle, who was 100% supportive of me and let me know it in many ways with his encouragement. If I did something that he thought was an especially good accomplishment, right afterwards […]
