
A Wonderful Milestone
September 21, 2026The other day, I was walking through a parking lot at a condominium complex and noticed three Toyota Camrys parked right in a row. When I looked around, I saw several more Camrys scattered throughout the lot.
It struck me as a simple but clear example of a psychological persuasion principle called social proof — the tendency to be influenced by what other people around us are doing.
Social proof can be helpful because it allows us to make decisions quickly by assuming that others’ choices are informed or reliable. But there’s a catch: other people’s judgments can be wrong, or what works for them might not be right for you.
If you tend to make decisions based primarily on what you see others doing, it’s worth balancing that instinct by seeking out more diverse input. Talk to trusted colleagues, look for expert insights, or reflect on how a choice aligns with your own goals and values. That added perspective can keep you from making a decision that’s efficient in the moment but costly in the long run.
Three ways leaders can use this principle to be more efficient and effective:
- Balance intuition with inquiry. Before adopting a popular approach, pause to ask why others are doing it and whether it fits your specific context or team culture.
- Use social proof strategically. Highlight positive behaviors you want to reinforce in your organization—such as collaboration or accountability—by sharing real examples of team members doing those things well.
- Encourage independent thinking. Create a culture where thoughtful dissent is valued. Leaders who welcome diverse viewpoints often make faster, higher-quality decisions over time.
Next time you walk past a row of identical cars—or identical business strategies—remember that following the crowd isn’t always the best move. Sometimes, stepping back to verify the reasoning behind a choice is what truly drives good leadership.





